Hi Anita,

your assessment seems correct to me.Thanks for your time.

Hi Eliana,

Thanks for your advice too will do.

-Heisenberg

Dear Anita,

Thanks…I try to tell you in a brief approx 1.5 years back we were in our home country where me and she was working happily living…later I got opportunity to work abroad first I came alone and decided to live alone for a while and save money and will go back…but after I came I realized I cannot stay without my family..so I asked her to join me..She wasn’t much interested..could be due to her job and kid’s study..but I didn’t understand that thing that time and called them..My kid’s school had to drop even though he was in kindergarten at that time and my wife had to leave her job as well.

Now this happened approx a year back..after coming here she had no job and all the time stay at home..I wanted her to start job but she didn’t get any job here…she was frustrated with this..I didn’t understand…now my kid was also going to be in higher standard and she knew in our home country study is good compare where we are staying right now,she had plan to start his study there…I shown my disagreement on this few times..that “we should stay together” “why you want to stay away from me”.

So 3 months back my kid and her went to home country to attend family function..the plan was to come back after 1 month…but after she gone one day she started telling that kid will study here only and we had long argument on phone for that..then she tried to convince me that she should stay in home country for kid’s study and her career as well..I wasn’t agree with her on this…later she pissed off and started to say she doesn’t want to stay with me and all..then I got scared I took flight and went to her parents’ home…but sadly they all treated very cold and asked me to leave.

I went again to see her to talk to her to see my kid..but they never showed my kid and they called my wife ..once I saw her and she seen me..we smiled ..but later when she sat on chair and started talking that she won’t stay with me anymore and we are not going to stay together ..I was shocked to listen this ..I apologized her if I did anything wrong but nobody listened to me…and asked me to leave..after 30-45 minutes of this I came back and never went back.

Hi Anita Thanks for reply,Yes she told me that she wants to end everything and told me to send me divorce papers too but never sent so far,she is living with her parents and our Kid is with her only,I haven’t seen my kid form last 3 months,I tried to reach out to talk to my kid and wish him b’day too but she never picked up the call.I don’t want to start legal processing from my end,so just waiting if she starts.

I don’t want my kid only I want to live together with my wife and kid both,so I am keeping patience but in this I am not able to see my son and not even to talk…so wanted to know shall I keep waiting for her or start legal proceedings.

note:me and my wife in different countries

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