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  • June 20, 2015 at 5:10 am in reply to: Am I on the right way? #78505
    Glet
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    Hello there…
    I went through a similar situation and after everything I have learnt that
    “the reality is that you can’t control how a person feels about you…but you can control your thoughts”…
    and I love that you decided to work on your self confidence that is the greatest step and the best step to take…and its okay to feel lonely once in a while because change doesn’t happen in a day…but when you feel lonely,try writing down your thoughts….see what triggers this loneliness..and be aware of everything you are feeling at that time….
    letting go of someone is hard but I advice you to keep working on yourself..to feed yourself with positivity (this won’t be easy)…but when a negative thought crosses your mind,try reminding yourself that you are a good person who deserves to be happy…
    (I have a reminder on my phone and every day when I wake up the reminder comes and it reads “hey you are beautiful and amazing and today you will be happier than you were yesterday”,.
    and after reading that I get out of bed with a positive mindset….

    so don’t give up on your journey,keep trying to be the happy,confident person that you want to be and with time you will find someone and if it doesn’t work,remember its not because you were the weak link but because they didn’t work on themselves like you did…

    I wish you all the best

    June 15, 2015 at 4:29 am in reply to: please please help me move on… #78242
    Glet
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    Dear Kristen

    thank you so much for your reply and just knowing that you could move on from your past gives me courage to do so too…and yes I am willing to be a better person for me and for the people who truly love me..luckily I have always had alot of people who cared for me,I just never let them in..but I will try and I will do my best..once again thank you

    June 14, 2015 at 3:44 pm in reply to: please please help me move on… #78206
    Glet
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    Dear Matt

    thank you so so much for your kind words and for taking time to read my post..i highly appreciate your kind words and they have inspired me to keep going on with my self love journey

    June 14, 2015 at 3:24 pm in reply to: Moving Out While He Is Away: Spineless? Or Realistic? #78203
    Glet
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    Hello there…

    I am much younger than you but I have been in a similar relationship..i dated someone who seemed so perfect at first,perfect to everyone and he was quick to proclaim his love for me but once I got to know him..he was a different person…later on I realized that he was a narcissist…(have you read about it???)..maybe you should try and research more on narcissistic behavior to see if it fits your situation…and about you leaving him,I think the sooner you leave the better for you..he sounds very manipulative and abusing…and such people rarely get help…leaving him will not be easy but the more you stay with him,the more this will go on if he doesn’t get help and your time will be wasted…

    be strong!!..and most importantly look out for you when you still can.

    June 10, 2015 at 3:42 pm in reply to: lost faith #78021
    Glet
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    Thank you both for your replies…i appreciate it…and yes there are just too many contradiction in this world…even the bible itself is full of contradictions…but I will see how this all turns out,..thank you

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