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    Hi HippieChick

    Over the past three years I have lost 75 pounds (divorce kicked off the weight loss) and still was not overly confident in my appearance. So, then I did what I felt was the unthinkable, and I stopped smoking…it’s been 3 weeks, but I have maintained this. And, I loaded the Couch to 5k app onto my cell phone and I am doing it. Take it from me, it works! (the first week training I did twice before moving on to week 2)
    One thing that I have found though, is that I no longer know what I weigh. And, it helps! Instead of concentrating on what my weight is, or what my weight goal is, I have changed to think in terms of “am I toning? am I developing muscle? do I feel good today?” If I can answer yes to one of those questions (especially the 3rd one) I am happy!
    Concentrate on you, make yourself happy and focus on any and all positives that you feel about yourself on any given day!

    #89787
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    Aislynn

    It’s been 4 years, why does he still have contact info for you?
    Closure is difficult, especially when there is no spoken good bye. I know, I have been there. And I still, some days, struggle with the fact that I no longer hear from him. But that was my choice. I had to seek my own closure. I had to realize that if I had been important enough to him, he would have made the effort to have me in his life. So, even though we never verbally said goodbye, I have sought my own closure.
    I read somewhere that some people are meant to be in your heart, even if they are not meant to be part of your life. This person is not meant to be a part of your life any longer. Please, do not reply to him. Please move on and know that someone wonderful is waiting for you.

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