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Caring GuyParticipantThanks…
well the crap hit the fan tonight… ! I was involved in a car accident and most likely totaled my car !!!I guess things can get better!! Maybe this is a sign ?
Caring GuyParticipantthanks, I am just really have become impatient. Spending time in self sorrow, It is very hard. It effects me at work, I am just watching the clock waiting to go home! And what will I do when I go home? Sit there as I have done! I am failing my kids, my GF not doing anything. I have this weekend to myself and I can not even think of anything I want to do with myself! It appears that it is going to be a rainy weekend where I live and all I can think of is sitting my home ( my room to be specific) and sit and wonder how the heck I got myself in to this mess with myself !
Caring GuyParticipantThanks,
Currently everyone wants space from me so that I can work on ME! (kids/GF). They all say it is good for the long term gain, better relationships with my kids and GF. So currently I am in a dark lonely place with myself. Trying to figure out what I need to do. I call everyone and talk to everyone about my current situation. Not grieving yet because I have been told by GF that we are still a couple but we need space so that we can work on ourselves. I try and try to give her space but I text and wait for a response ! I know she is just trying to help me so that I can not be so dependent on her. It is very hard! The same is occurring with my kids. I need to stop or I will push everyone away.
I am trying to meditate, but I can not focus.. My mind just wonders to what is going on. I got some meds, but I am not sure if I really want to be on them. I am just consumed by all of this.
Caring GuyParticipant@MATT,
Yes… totally saturated and swamped. My life has become consumed with all of this going on with me.Caring GuyParticipantThanks I am trying to. I have unfortuantly been secluding myself to my home and trying somehow to get a light under my butt to do something
Just feel out of sort
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I have been spending alot of time watching stuff on lineCaring GuyParticipant@Aiyana Henderson
Yes I am trying to work on that everyone seems to want a break from meCaring GuyParticipantI do not want to be that far from my kids … that is one of my issues. My had a rocky relationship with my father growing up and in my teens and adult life. I do not want to see that happen with mine.
Caring GuyParticipantThanks… but everyone tells me I need to break from all (GF and Kids) to work on me. I just do not know how to work on me… do not know where to start!! I do not have any addiction issues. I am very alone ( friends / family are 800 miles away.) I just find myself sitting in my room and looking for help on the web. I keep saying I need to get up and move around ( I did go out to the store yesterday for about an hour)
July 28, 2014 at 6:13 am in reply to: In need of a Life Overhaul… but where on earth do I start? #61948Caring GuyParticipant@hannahlhogan
I feel your painCaring GuyParticipantIt is ok, I must of lost that i put my name there in all of my ramblings
It is a killer now that I have to wait for my next meeting with my GF. It was so nice to see, talk ,kiss and hold her.
Caring GuyParticipant@jasmine-3
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I need to do this me and not what everyone else wants. A work in progressBTW How did you know my name ? I did not think I mentioned it
Caring GuyParticipantThanks
I need to do this me and not what everyone else wants. A work in progressBTW How did you know my name ? I did not think I mentioned it
Caring GuyParticipantthanks Jasmine…..
how does someone find themselves ? I have been trying to figure that out. I can not get my brain to go in that direction. I keep finding myself
Caring GuyParticipanthappy to report. we had a good night at dinner and some time at the park. Felt good to hold and kiss the love of my life
she did feel my nervousness, she knew that I was not feeling secure with what was going on in our relationship. She told me the we are still a couple ,, we just need this time and space.. I need to work on myself, be happy with myself and find myself again.
She said that we need to take our relationship with baby steps and get back to us. She does want to see me again shortly, I also asked that we can at least talk more on the phone than we have the past few weeks
So I feel good for now and i need to keep this going and become and love myself again… Now I need to find me !!
Anyone been able to find themselves ??
Caring GuyParticipantlike I have said before we have been together for a year now! We have had all of this, it has been almost 3 weeks since I have seen her in person! So going from Hard core seeing each other each week and for days as at time has put such a void in my heart and soul!
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