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Hi thank you so much for your reply! Reading through what you wrote makes me mad at how people can treat people and completely put them through heartbreak like that but I guess that’s what makes us stronger. I am so glad you found someone that will treat you how you deserve, your exactly right with everything you say. Yes I can imagine a long distance relationship must be so hard that obviously creates even more stress and insecurity in the relationship but then it’s so much more precious when you actually get to see each other. If you think he is the one and is worth your trust then go for it put your heart and sole in it because like you said he has never given you a reason to not trust him and that’s exactly like my boyfriend he is so honest with me so I really have no idea why I worry but I guess once you’ve been in a bad relationship it’s so hard to trust I feel like I’m always looking for something or trying to find out something when deep down it’s ruining a great relationship. Communication is the top priority to a good relationship like you say. Thank you for your advice. Wish you very well in your relationship 🙂
Moonlove4ParticipantHi Laura, this is a difficult question because I completely understand you I have in someway done kind of the same thing as you… But it is a viscous cycle as you will already know and if you don’t get over it now then this problem will always arise in any relationship your in. I understand how hard it is but what I think is its nothing to really do with your boyfriend it’s to do with you, i feel you need to work on your self love and realise everything you’ve been through and how strong you were to leave your awful ex boyfriend. I have the same issues with me and my boyfriend but what we really need to do is work on ourselves. Don’t worry about him leaving/cheating because you don’t know if that will ever happen and if it does then you will move on and it will make you stronger but don’t worry about something that hasn’t happened yet. Also if he is moving to be with you in 3 months he must care about you a lot. Don’t loose him over little things you can work on, if you think he is worth it and is offering you everything you need to believe he’s a good boyfriend then trust him. Hope this helps
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