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  • February 26, 2015 at 3:35 am in reply to: Feeling excited! #73301
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    Hi,

    I feel that sometimes it is best not to think too much and just follow the flow. If this is what your heart tells you, then you are right. Many people lost their health, sacrifice thrir precious time with family in the end the children are not close withthe parents etc. I really don’t see any job that is worth me to lost valuable things like health.
    I would place family as my priority too if I have my own family.

    February 24, 2015 at 6:12 am in reply to: Keep things neutral/positive #73246
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    Hi mjl

    Yes I kept it positive. Didn’t want to share on the negative parts.

    I believe in karma so best to keep cycle positive. And I would also feel better this way.

    February 24, 2015 at 5:28 am in reply to: Keep things neutral/positive #73244
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    Thank you will.
    Unfortunately many companies still believe that reference cheCk is 100percent accurate.

    February 22, 2015 at 3:45 pm in reply to: Broke up and broken #73184
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    Hi bpkhss

    Those feelings and questions you asked yourself, I asked something similar when a relationship didn’t work out last Feb.
    Now when I recalled back I am safe to say that I wasn’t at fault at all. We are just not compatible so don’t blame yourself for the outcome. There are fortunately other guys out there who are open minded, my friend’s relatives who are muslims have married foreign guys too .

    Find someone who genuinely want to be with you but this is going to take time…

    February 22, 2015 at 12:14 am in reply to: The Twilight Zone #73131
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    I think what you are facing are what many people who live in a foreign land feels, so I don’t think you are weird. I am not sure in details what is happening at your end. I advised foreign friends to give themselves a year to try out in my country , if after a year they are still unhappy or not used to the culture then it is best to move home. and they did move home.

    Most important is to be happy.

    February 21, 2015 at 8:04 pm in reply to: Broke up and broken #73105
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    I agree with the rest that he isn’t an open minded guy. and instead of facing you personally he chose to be a coward and hid behind a screen thinking things would end better just via emails.
    In the past, when I experienced heartache issues I would think the same as you- what if I wont be able to find that love again, because of such thinking we tend not to let go easily. As cliche as it may sound, it is true that time heals almost everything.
    You will find that love again infact better. The world is twisted in such a way that ignorant people assume that everyone who practice islam religion is just like the ISIS members. I see those ISIS members as extremists, they are not muslims at all.

    Give yourself sometime , keep your mind occupied and take one step a time, you will be able to get over this. Time.
    You deserve someone better.

    Here’s a good quote, my friend used to share with me , and I agree now totally with it:

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    Take care

    February 20, 2015 at 4:15 am in reply to: no luck in job search #73046
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    Thank you ashley and mmk21 🙂
    It is very encouraging to read your comments.

    February 18, 2015 at 6:11 am in reply to: Reunion dinner or not, it still feels like silent night… #72934
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    Hi

    I am new to the forum. Like you i am also asian chinese, and I dont like chinese new year too.
    You are right that good times don’t last, but it applies to bad times too. I am struggling myself too and I have been telling myself that this too shall pass…I hope it happen soon for you and me.

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