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  • October 9, 2016 at 10:22 am in reply to: Having trouble getting over this breakup #117614
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    Upon rereading your reply again: how do I centre myself? I feel like I have never been centred my whole life, but that feeling may be because I do not truly understand what it means to centre oneself. Is there an article or post you can refer me to that may be able to explain this? I am quite new to this site. I found this site multiple times while searching for articles on various topics through google but I have not explored it much.

    October 9, 2016 at 9:45 am in reply to: Having trouble getting over this breakup #117613
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    Elisworth Davis: I am 21 years old. My family objects to me dating because they want my primary focus to be my studies. Thus they have never seen a need for me to maintain friendships or pursue extra-curriculars as well. His family objects to him dating because they want his focus to be on the family business, as he will have to take it over in the future. And yes we are bother university students.

    Part of me agrees with you, that he is not treating me right. But at the same time, I love him so much that I just overlook these things. I haven’t been a perfect girlfriend to him either. I try to be understanding and maybe that’s why I let this treatment slide. It is important to note that he is not keeping friends from me, it is just that they have known him for longer and thus gravitate towards him.

    I guess you’re right, I will get over this….it’s just difficult for me to keep that frame of mind

    October 9, 2016 at 9:40 am in reply to: Having trouble getting over this breakup #117609
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    Anita: Yeah I see what you are saying about the power aspect. And you are right that he has made his choice. I just don’t think he made the right one. He has told me that if I am still single in the future and things a little bit better from his end, then he will try resuming the relationship at that point. But then he also does not want me to wait for him. Everything he is saying is reasonable, I just don’t know why I have so much trouble coming to terms with it. I’m scared of losing him I guess

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