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  • March 13, 2018 at 8:21 am #197041
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    Hi Mark,

     

    Thanks for your answer. We met in person and spend 1 year on the same campus. We lost contact as I move back to Europe for a while and reconnected kind of by accident 2 years ago. Social media was just a way to keep in touch since she lives on the East Coast. I’ve met a lot of girls recently and I’ve tried to focus on what I could potentially build with them but I just doesn’t feel complete.

     

    Therefore I chose to open up to her and got ghosted. Now that I have blocked her for 5 months I feel like she will never reach out and that is too late.

    February 23, 2018 at 2:33 pm #194141
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    @Casey:

    True! it is just a bit hard for me to let go as I would have never imagined to be in such a situation with that person.

     

    What bother me the most is probably the fact that I have to deal with the fact that I’ll probably never receive an apology from her now that she’s blocked or not even an explanation as to why she acted this way…

     


    @Anita    : yeah…she could be busy with social media but I’m really sure that she wanted to get my attention when she was doing all those things. I’m also very sure that we were both very attentive to each other’s behavior but the difference is that I’m not a big fan of mind games and I will eventually tell the person what’s on my mind on day or another.

    February 22, 2018 at 2:12 pm #193979
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    Thanks Eliana. Even though I feel that blocking someone could be childish I think it’s the best way to go for now. You’re right, I think if people want to find a way to contact you they will, no matter what blocked or not.

    I even think that unblocking would do quite the opposite than attracting her…

    February 22, 2018 at 2:08 pm #193977
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    Hi Casey,

    thanks for your answer. Yes, I think you’re right and although it feels bad to realize that I was being used I’m not sure she realized exactly what she was doing.

     

    Blocking sounds immature but it’s probably the best way. One thing I’ve noticed though is that she’s used to be very active and a friend a mine told me that she now barely posts. Could it be a sign of of change from her or just that she misses the attention?

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