Inky & Gracen

The 3 of us have wonderful things in common.
We all genuinely care about the well-being of others.
We all desire to better ourselves and are humble enough to admit when we are wrong and correct ourselves.
We all have good intentions.

The road to heaven/enlightenment/perfection is paved with good intentions.
(Whoever said (or believes) “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” does not have a clue:)

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I was married with a child when I developed a strong attraction for a co-worker. She had a boyfriend. I kept my feelings to myself. I ended my marriage about 9 months after I met her, not because of her, but because my wife and I had grown hopelessly apart. After my divorce I dated another co-worker for a few months, then ended that for several reasons. Soon after that I felt compelled to tell the former woman, whom I had at this point been close friends with for a year, that I wanted to be with her. She said, “I am flattered, but I am with so & so and We are happy.” I left it at that. The next day at work she said, “I left so & so.” We were married for many years. Looking back we both agree that we should have remained “just friends.” The truth is, just because you love someone it does not mean that you should have sex with them and/or make a life with them. Love and compatibility do not necessarily go together. Again; we live and learn (hopefully:)

• This reply was modified 9 years, 7 months ago by Erik.

Hi Natalia,
Forgive yourself. You dealt with the situation as best as you could.
Now that you are wiser and stronger you will deal with similar situations better.
It is obvious that you care about the feelings of others and desire to treat them right. Treat yourself right by forgiving yourself 🙂 <3