Dear BlackFox3,

Thank you for sharing your experience. I know it’s best for me to let it go but it is so hard knowing I am hurting the other person. But I know what the right choice is. I do not want me or him resenting the decisions I make b/c of my feelings of guilt.

I hope you take the advice you have given me and apply it to yourself as well. I know 16 months might seem like a long time and the pain will be intense but like you said …the longer you wait the stronger the feelings of hurt will be. Have you considered taking sometime apart from your girlfriend to figure out your feelings? It might help you make your decision of whether you want a future with her or not.

Wishing you all the best,
Erica

• This reply was modified 8 years, 11 months ago by Erica.

Dear k8tyB and Anita,

Thank you for your insight. I really needed to hear this.

Much love,
Erica