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  • December 6, 2016 at 4:54 am in reply to: Absolutely crushed by what I've seen. Need advice on what to do. :( #122022
    emberlyn
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    Thank you for your responses guys.

    When he said he misses their time together, hanging out, talking, etc, do you think it’s possible he meant as a friend? He once told me he hoped they could stay friends.

    I know that she wants him back. She even bought him gifts to try and win him back, one got delivered to the house when I was there two months ago. He knows she’d take him back in a heartbeat and if he wanted to be with her too, he would be.

    We’re planning to spend Christmas and new year together. He asked me last night if I would like to come down once I’ve finished college for the holidays and spend a couple of weeks with him. This is a good sign yeah? Shows he wants to spend a lot of time with me 🙂

    December 5, 2016 at 6:43 am in reply to: Absolutely crushed by what I've seen. Need advice on what to do. :( #121957
    emberlyn
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    Hi Anita, thank you for your response.

    The last text he sent to her was on Thursday, the day before I went over. It was the one that said he missed their time together, hanging out with her and talking to her… What you say is what I feared, but the hopeful side of me believes he doesn’t have feelings for her anymore and is just looking out for her as a friend and just feels guilty about hurting her.

    I haven’t told him I saw the texts but he’s been talking to me constantly since I got back home, so I know he wants to be with me. At the end of the day, if he wanted to be with her he would, wouldn’t he? She made it clear to him in her text she wanted more than friendship but he’s not with her, he’s with me. What do you think?

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