Wow, what an incredible community this is! So helpful and insightful!

Thank you Matt, Moongal and Inky for taking the time to reply to me. I really value what you’ve shared and I feel so much more lightness around this now.

Matt – Your reframing of the situation has been particular helpful. I think part of why I’ve struggled with this guy is that he’s had warnings. I really want to understand where he’s coming from, but I’ve found this difficult. Aiming for kindness and non-judgment feels better, more achievable.

The idea of acceptance does trip me up; but I’m learning.

Moongal – you’re so right; making everyone happy shouldn’t be brought into this. That’s not something I can be responsible for. Thanks for helping me see this and for keeping me on track!

Inky – Yes; definitely my least favourite thing about running a business too! I’m still very new to this, and this is a first for me. Hopefully this is something I won’t have to encounter too often again! My husband and I have started to put the necessary steps in place this situation to move forward – thank you for the advice.

Thanks again everyone!