Dear Anita I left family home and lived alone then she always keep calling me and said oh I am Ill I am not well I need care take me to this hospital to that hospital do this do that and if I said no she told me some world and I really feel so bad guilty and I wish to die and never heard them again .

I couldn’t not be firm with her and said no and stop her and again I back to her and even take her to my home

She always blamed me why you met this guy that guy always asking about my private life an sky relation.

And every time I stopped her she spotted and crying like small baby.

One of my bf got so angry and left me and he said you are not small girl why your mother is like this and we break up my mother don’t like him.she always said me you are not clever and smart look at other girls with half of your beauty they made amazing life and perfect marriege but you just wasting your time and let guys play and use you.

Dear Anita

Some times I think its better I don’t start any relation and stay in relationship.

I think I can not accept it even I don’t think I can be good wife as well .

Dear Anita I understand and thanks for this definition . But in the real world we don’t fallow the correct definition that’s are in dictionary for example about justice it has clear definition but in each country there is special rules and laws for achieve it .

And about him and I I know I am lover but lover with some rules.

I know and understand and thank you but I don’t know what to do

I know it’s acceptable and reasonable to have real bf but I know he will not accept and I am worried I break up with him and I can not find suit guy for myself as well

Dear Anita

I am thinking so much about leaving him and I left him 2 times but after few days we come back to eachother even one time I met one man I thought he can be fine but he was not suit for me and after 2 times I said him no sorry and I back to my married lover .I don’t know is it strong bond between us or I say lie to my self. I don’t know how go to date with cloths that he bought for me with phone is my birthday gift with all things is from him and all emotion  I have about him .one side of my character is so selfish and even maybe look so devil but I don’t know what to do with him

Hi every body I have other problem I have one date but I am not sure to go or not and honestly I feel so bad I can not cheat on him some thing in my heart stopped me and I feel so bad I don’t know how explain is the guilty feeling or feeling like sinner .I did not even call to this New guy for fix I don’t know what to do.i think it must be easy but it’s not what shall I do

Dear Anita absoulabso you are right .I don’t feel bad about his family and I don’t feel I detsriyed his kids life because the father of the family has rights be happy an denjiyed his life as well and he found this happiness with me so it’s not my sin.but thanks for your advice .

Even if I be not in his life he will have ama eheadchaes and fights he has sproblem with his wife and stay there because of kids any way will grow up I be there or not they have problem I am not source of problem and even if I leave him he will not stay with his wife and will have other mistress again for sure as like before he had as well . And what about our emotion and love why we must waste our life for kids that when they grow up they go to their life .it’s not my fault his wife can not commited her husband to her self …

But about traveling and lot of shopping no I can not afford