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EliParticipant
Dear Anita
I know so good his kids are so important for him and they are first pioripri for him.
And in other thing I must say he is Egyptian his wife as well .and one time he said oh I know her family will make some problem for her or if before 5 years I want to divorced her maybe she take my kids and go to her family and I can not see my kids again after than I convince him and she can not take kids with out hispermishis p or court permission and she can not survive with out his support . So he accepted that she can not do it .
And about divorce they had horrible fight with each other and he said he is fed up and want to leave her and she can stay in this flat or go to other flat so he sign paper for divorced and just he must take them to court and wait for 6 months for divorced happens automatically but when his wife saw papers took them and put them in rubbish and she get calm and he said oh she got her lesson but it’s her last chance her last chance for sure.
And about he has sex or what excuse exactly he said I don’t know really just I know the kids sleep with their mothee
EliParticipantDear Anita
I asked him he said I can not leave her alone with out any money I can not forgive my self I do this so of course I will give her enough money and flat in her name car and I will support my kids and well and if she accept this I can see my kids every time I want as well and will come and live with you in our flat .
In other hand is she don’t want to stay and ask for divorced it’s get more complex but in this time my kids can decide for their self stay with her or me and we can go to court for have deal when I see my kids .
And he said she can accept you and accept I live with you and she has her own life and my support .or get divorced and don’t accept you so in this case it more complex and difficult for me.
He continued for sure I will not stay with her forever
EliParticipantDear Anita I will talk with him and update you and will write here what’s he means exactly thank you
EliParticipantDear Michella
I don’t know why even after I met new man I was crying and missed this married man and I feel guilty .
I really feel I am so dump
EliParticipantDear Anita your understanding is correct .and why he always said 5 years it’s because of his youngest kid he wants he group more enough
EliParticipantDear Anita I never look at this point from this view .
I just know he said after 5 years he will say to her he has lover and want want live with me if she accept Okey if not she can go get divorce or leave him or she can accept and stay with her kids in their home but ex bf will stay with me and just go for check kids and support them
EliParticipantDear Anita yes absolutely right
EliParticipantDear Anita
- yes my mother asked me stay with him so i will not barden for her.
- Yes in the first he wants only lover but after that he said I fill in love and I want you for ever be patient I see my future with you ….and about bad words he said me fuck of fuck you go to hell go away from me I had enough .and when he said maybe you see some guys you want to leave me and go with them but for sure they want just take you to bed Yani want you only for security no other thing they are not serious
EliParticipantDear Anita hi I am so happy you reply back .
I understand what do you mean Anita I agree.
He asked me for be patient as like he said always the small kids grow up get around 10 years then he will say his wife he had me his life and want to live with me after that and leave her tottaly she can get divorced or stay there but he told me he can not kick her out and let she stay in street but if she wants to leave it’s it’s okey.
He ask me for be patient because they have problems and as like I told you one time he wants to divorced her ..and some times he told me maybe it don’t even take years and she wants to leave him and end of story.
EliParticipantDear Anita how much I am happy I can share all this with you.
I think I must cut with her and don’t have any connection with her because she just add more prrsspre and tension to my life .
Last night I was in date and see this new guy he got divorced 5 years ago he has one daughter she is 14 years old . He look nice and he told me he want to know me more and we go out more .after than when I come back all the night I was crying and ask my self how I trow 5 years memories in rubbish like this and I missed my ex bf and I wish to talk with him again see him again
I don’t remember how I spend the night any way in the morning I got email from ex that he again said I love you I can not live with out you be patient please
Today I stay at home because I don’t feel well I don’t answer calls I rejected all them .and I really fill so confused Anita I am waiting for you thanks
EliParticipantDear Anita I was waiting for you welcome back .I like to talking with you as well.today I feel better .
You know I want thinking to back to my last job or find new job an story to be depend on myself only.
I remember one time I feed the rabbits in garden with some vegetables and our neibers was complaining oh you make dirty our street I see my mom is telling oh Okey I am sorry but when she came inside she told me oh Eli this man fighting me because EOF your fault any way I get so angry I go out and fight with them so badly and when I come back I see she is sitting and drink morning coffee and I just look so stupid .
She always play with me and use me no thing else .
EliParticipantOf course I will post again .Anita I had fight with him I told him you just use me and play with me and waste my life with fake hope when kids grow up you will leave her but its bullshit and he said oh I wanted to have lover but you want be more than this and be everything I said Okey it’s not working like this I want to have my own life he said yah yah maybe you saw some guys you like them but besure they just want take you to bed no thing else and then he said some bad words and I blocked him and he did the same
EliParticipantThank you dear Anita good luck
EliParticipantDear Anita
Do you think I am happy for share a man with other lady and always live inside fears that maybe she leaves me and back to his family and every thing he told me were lies .
But I am sure if I leave him my mother will blame me all the times oh you were with him for 5 years now how you will support your self maybe you want back to my home………
EliParticipantShe wants I be like nourse home maid I don’t know what to do with her every time I ignore her I feel so bad then she message and said oh I will die you never see me again ….some words like this .
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