CLint,
First of all, I am glad you have found someone that makes you happy. And I applaud you for asking for help/advice to make your relationship better. Don’t be afraid to share your feelings about the situation with her. I would just suggest to talk to her when you are not heated and not in a group setting. It is my thought that some people carry a strong light from within and attract people due to their energy. They are givers and love to help/share ideas with others. Understand who she is and her intentions. If you are confortable with them then that should help with building trust. From there, perhaps start putting more belief in your love for each other and putting more value to you. If you smother her too much about your jealous actions she may want to distance herself to feel relief from the situation. But if you work on yourself more and build up your own self esteem that can only make both of you stronger-singly and together as a couple. She will be more attracted to your light and you as a person. Focus on yourself. You are worth it and she already knows it-otherwise she wouldnt be with you. Best of luck to you both.