Observation and communication is the way forward now!
I can see that showing her the thread is not a good idea. I have also told my friends that i was not going to talk so much about her any more…
It is all for my self, her (and this site) from now on.
Thank you so much for helping me, it has been amazing! THANK YOU!! 🙂
Niel they were not hurtful in any way. they were uplifting!
I think i will observe more of her and her behavior.
It is so nice to get response, I WILL have the talk with her after the “new years party” were both of them will come.
But i will make it very clear to her how I feel and how “the engine” should run…
But what is your opinion on showing this to her. your names will not be shown, but your answers will.
I am not saying it is what i want, but i think she should see others opinion to?
hi Mark, thank you so much for your answer!!
I just don’t think i can cut her loose, i need the courage.
She is an amazing girlfriend and friend, it is just the past that is going through my mind, all those images…
I think i will consider your response, but i would rather let the light go out instead of blowing it out..
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