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  • in reply to: I Feel That I Don't Deserve to be Happy #204959
    Doris
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    Hi Lucas,

    We tend to do those things, compare to other people and believe that they deserve love but we don’t, and I don’t think it actually works like that. Lets think of it in a rational way, what makes other people more deserving than you. I mean, we ALL have flaws, why are their flaws or personalities less importante or more appealing that ours. I think it depends on the perspective of the person who sees the flaws, I  mean, what may be flawed for me may be perfect for you. So there is no one who desereves more or lless love. We are all the same. Its just that sometimes we are so into our  thoughts that we fail to see that and se that we have the same value and deserve the same love as anyone else.

    in reply to: I love him but my thoughts are telling me otherwise #193447
    Doris
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    Hi Michelle,

    I feel you so scared. Have you ever taken the time to calmly face your fears and imagine what would happen if the worst of your fears happened. I mean, what would happen if you lost your boyfriend. I think sometimes we avoid doing things because of this fear, but if we think about it we discover that maybe things are not as ugly as we think.

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