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  • February 3, 2017 at 6:42 am in reply to: Meth ruined my life #126634
    Dee Dee
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    Dear, Anita..

    Thank you for your kind reply. The thing is, I never wanted to be inspirational. I used to be a very positive and optimistic person, I used to believe there’s a reason behind everything that happened and there’s always something to learn. But after these 3 years, I feel like I have lost all those values. I lost my vision of life. I can’t seem to find what’s the reason behind all these chaos. Is it my karma? Have I done anything really bad in my life that makes me deserve this? Or is this just a test to make me a better human? I don’t even know what’s right or wrong anymore.

    It feels like I have lost myself somewhere along this mess. How could I find her again? How could you be you again?

    Dee.

    February 3, 2017 at 6:26 am in reply to: Help!!! Will he come back? #126632
    Dee Dee
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    Dear, Regijones..

    Don’t move to NZ.

    From what I read, it seems like he is indeed is unstable at the moment. I am sorry you have to hear this, but the truth is, you are a burden to him right now. If he’s in bad depression, being loved so hard while knowing you can’t be a good partner, is a burden. The bigger your love for him, the worse you made him feel about himself.

    Set him free. Give him some time. Let him learn again to love himself, stop texting him, find any distraction like new hobbies or activities. Don’t feel like he puts you on standby, don’t, it’ll also makes him feel bad. If you really love him, just move on with your life and be happy instead.

    Love is the most complex thing in this universe, but it is also the most simple thing. Have faith, stop forcing things. Sometimes you just have to give in and let things happen. If it’s meant to be, it will be.

    Dee.

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