Thank you everyone, I’ve downloaded some podcasts, signed up for more gym classes and began an online mediation course to try clear my head. I am so thankful for this site, i was previously married for 19 years and we separated amicably with children, so that break wasn’t too bad as we talked a lot about the situation and we have remained friends. I’m hurting like hell but seeing how others have come out the other side gives me hope.

I hope everyone here has found peace and love  in there lives

Thank you everyone for your kind words of support. Anita, I see you’ve read my previous post so you’ll see the flaws in our relationship because he wouldn’t let his ex out of his life so one issue is my lack of trust and I won’t move in with him which is a concern for him.

I am trying to be strong and keep myself busy, I’ve a good support network and whilst I want him and want to fight for him I want him to want me for the right reasons

much love to you all

Thank you for your story, I can’t cry I’m just in a state of denial. I have re read his last txt which talks of desperation because he feels our lives in limbo but the future will be there again for us. I just can’t get my head around it all. We have had some really difficult times but stuck together yet I feel even though he professes To love me so much love he feels he can just be on a break

I’m rambling I know, I wish he’d been cruel and blunt rather than filling me with hope and uncertainty. I think I would deal with that better

• This reply was modified 6 years, 8 months ago by Debido.

Sorry for any typos, this is keeping me awake and I’m on my phone