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daydreamer91Participantself preservation n self respect. i was happy n had this freedom in my life before i met her. now i have gone back to my roots,trying to pick up from where i left a year ago. Its not an easy job but i am glad that i have bunch of people around me who have accepted me right back in. Sometimes i think so much have changed n sometimes it all feels so static. and as they say, u ll never love anybody else unless u love yourself. n i hope i meet all kinds of beautiful ladies :D. Oh..i so badly want that to happen :).
daydreamer91ParticipantSandra! amazing, such insightful n powerful words. Feel free to post more. 🙂
daydreamer91Participanthii ayesha, u have an indian name,so i thought,never mind. yes!! self preservation n also self respect. i was happy n had this freedom in my life before i met her. now i have gone back to my roots,trying to pick up from where i left a year ago. Its not an easy job but i am glad that i have bunch of people around me who have accepted me right back in. Sometimes i think so much have changed n sometimes it all feels static. and as they say, u ll never love anybody else unless u love yourself. 🙂
hugs n wishes ,DayDreamerdaydreamer91Participanthii jennifer, those are really wise words. I think you have been in my shoes. yes m going to stop stalking her, n with a lot of determination will stop thinking about her. No point crying over someone who doesn’t even care,right!! i have started to reconnect with myself n mylife ,u know to what i was n what my life was(full of freedom n happiness) before her. Its just that it all happened so recently n unexpectedly. Btw i never knew words have such power, till i read yours. thanks
daydreamer91Participantgavin first of all, thanks man! for taking out the time n giving me this honest advice.
The thing is she is absolutely not interested in me,i know!. N even i don’t want to do anything with her. Its just that for last year or so i have only thought about her..so much that i have develop this unhealthy addiction n attraction towards her. It was pretty clear from the beginning that we were just friends, never did she hinted to contrary. I accept that that all this attachment is in my head only, she always considered me a friend. But it still aches to see that m not her priority anymore. she moved on from me just like that. ‘found a better friend’!i have to accept that the girl i used to say was my best friend, just isn’t interested anymore. Dear god help me!
daydreamer91Participantany suggestion is more then welcome!
daydreamer91Participanthey Ayesha (are u from India?,)hey Celina..
i have too broken up..but my story is pretty different. Can u guys plzz advice me on how to stay strong in movements of weakness when all u want to do is to text or talk to the other person.what drives ur determination then n how to fight this sadness n depression n most importantly the loneliness that engulfs u! any suggestion is more than welcome!
m copy pasting my story,will give u better context.last year i helped one of my friends after her breakup.
we became best friends. always talking, always chatting. her personal life was mine n mine was hers. it went on for around 7-8 months. slowly slowly my fondness for her grew.
i neglected my friends n family for her. but in last two months she has reconnected with two of her old friends. now she is only interested in them. we hardly talks like once in a month,earlier it was used to be every night for 2-3 hours.
now i m attracted to her n she is out of her breakup. lives happily, have a new life, new friends, new job n hardly talks to me …best part is she came to me for help.
now i m heart broken n she is enjoying her ‘new life’.
but i can’t stop thinking about her..always stocking her on fb n whatsapp. m sort of addicted to her. plzz some1 help me!!daydreamer91Participantits like u are telling my story! m too is in a bad relationship with this group of people i used to call my family. but things have changed in past few months. no one shares anything with me or trusts me but expect me to behave normally one we meet once a month. every time something happens they like to believe that i have some ulterior motives behind it. i want them to just let me go. m too week to do it myself as m going to be totally alone when they exit. but i don’t enjoy them anymore. 🙁
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