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May 31, 2014 at 8:22 am #57771aliceParticipant
@talkingwithtinybuddah and @vanessakay thank you for sharing, yes feeling you wise and happy now does help me, actually i came to the same conlusion (finally!) if that person a friend or a lover doesn’t not treat the way i want doesn’t to be in life, and what they do or say or THINK does not concerne me anymore :)) ,but i must confess that anytime he came back i feel weak again and feel that i could miss a chance especially when i feel him sincere sometime, i won’t lie it disturbes me alot anytime he shows up…but i’m trying to stick to the hurtful but releasing reality that i choosed even if i’m not toally convinced that’s he dind’t really care about me and i got to block my heart from feelings and my mind from memories, i don’t know how i’ll finally get through this but i know i will, thank you and excuse my english it’s not my native langage :)) love <3
May 31, 2014 at 8:09 am #57770aliceParticipant@kornfield i think you need to learn to say no, and attract people less narcissique, bu it’s very humble from you to listen to other’s stories especially when listening is a rare thing nowdays.
May 28, 2014 at 11:26 am #57573aliceParticipant@theruminant i think you’re passionate about life !
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May 28, 2014 at 11:18 am #57572aliceParticipanthey, e refer to career or things because when it comes to people it’s only temporary…i think ! t’s great to be passionate and fear is a part from that !
May 27, 2014 at 1:36 pm #57501aliceParticipantthank you for your concerne :))
May 27, 2014 at 12:53 pm #57494aliceParticipanthi;
having passion for something or someone, is having fun a lot of joy being with them or doing that thing, and your whole consciousness isinto that thing, it’s like you’re in you own world and nothing else surround you while you’re in your thing;you’re inspired easily and thinking several time about it, and once you make it as you want and imagined, what a consent you get.
i was so into drawing fw years ago, i hope i helped you and excuse my english it’s not my native langage, love !May 27, 2014 at 12:37 pm #57490aliceParticipanthi;
your answer is deep and kind and more helpful, but it’s funny it gives me hope in the other person, i want help him to save himslef but i’m healing from my childhood experience too, and i finally realise that i don’t need all that, but a part of me still want help him !
by the way this statement “How I got treated wasn’t really even about me. It could’ve been someone else in my position, and they would’ve gotten the same treatment. Sure, the hurtful comments are always personal, as otherwise they wouldn’t be hurtful, but the reason behind the comments wasn’t me, but the other person’s inability to handle their own pain and hurt” is comforting and so true :))
thank you for your kindness love !May 21, 2014 at 10:29 am #56781aliceParticipantHi Tracey 🙂
thank you for taking time to respond me and for your concerne; yess i do think that i suffer from low self esteem and anxiety, and i’m trying to work on that since few months and happily i feel some changes 🙂 .
what comes to love i’m trying to let go of him but it’s a little hard for me even with all i’ve been trough,but finally i’m accepting the fact that we have no future together…it’s just that sometimes i feel so weak when it comes to him, to the point when i see him becoming online on skype (or whatever) i become so nervous and stressed (even if im offline), dont know how to control that, i hate myselfe when i’m like that what’s wrong with me !!!!love <3
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