Anita,

I want to let go of my past relationship. I never give up on people. Whether it’s friends or family who have hurt me or done something bad, I will always be there for them and never lose hope with them.

An example of never giving up, my best friend turned into someone else. Became into drugs and started to hangout with the wrong crowd. I talked to him about it, knowing that wasn’t him and he didn’t take it well. Years later I had class with him and we hit it off again. After becoming distant and never talking anymore I never gave up on him or our friendship and it worked out. That’s why it’s hard for me to give up on someone I love deeply.

Andy

Anita,

You’re right about the post relationship loyalty. But personally I feel if you can’t get over your last person why even try with someone else? I feel like there’s no benefit in that. I would never do that because I realize it causes a great deal of pain. And if I loved someone no matter what I would never do them harm.

I think there’s a right way to go about things like that and I think she went the wrong way. Maybe I’m wrong but that’s just how I feel. Jealousy? Bitterness? Pain? Whatever it is, it’s a bad feeling. I really do feel betrayed though. That’s just me. 🙁

Andy

Anita,

I guess it’s a combination of both. We had our troubles but always over came them.

Also is it good to be single for a while or just to into another relationship?

Andy

Cath,

It’s just so sinking. Knowing that the time and effort I put got spit out and now she’s with someone else. After just two weeks. After 4 years or dating. How could someone do that to someone they love?

I was attached to this girl. Emotionally, spiritually, everything. We had our differences but they went hand in hand I think. I can’t think straight. I’ve been praying and reading the bible. Plan on going to church. Anything to help me cope.

Andy

Anita,

After this heartbreak, I feel like sometimes I’m worthless and not good enough for anyone. I’m often times lonely and caught up in my emotions. And it’s hard to push the thoughts out of my head.

I am struggling. I have nothing left in the tank. I want to be okay already.

Maybe I’ll go for s walk but I want to hide still. I’m in pain.

Andy

Anita,

She didn’t sent it to me. It was just on the site. When people post pictures they usually let everyone see them. It just happened to be the first thing on my feed.

I don’t want to go out anymore. I don’t want to do anything. I just want to hide.

I’m feeling so hurt. So scared. She’s on my mind like always. I can’t let go. And she’s 200 times happier without me. Like I said. I just want to disappear forever. I’m so hurt. How is she so happy with him? How did I get thrown to the side? How did she bounce back so quick? Why can I shake it and be resilient like her?

Andy

Thank you Anita!

I’m trying to make today a good day. It’s my birthday. Not how I wanted to celebrate due to obvious reasons but I’ll try to make it as best as I can.

Thanks for everything everyone.
Andy

Anita,

Thank you. That was beautiful. My arms are very tired and weary. It feels as if I have nothing left in the tank.

Matty,

It’s so hard not to give up. I’m pretty much giving up on a person. And I never want to give up on anyone. And then I’m also giving up on myself. Heartbreak is so hard. I’m left picking up the pieces and she’s on with someone else now. That’s what’s hard about it. It’s hard to let go. Because what was once mine is now gone.

Belle,

I can’t. She doesn’t want to see or hear me and I don’t want to see or hear her. I can’t face her. She would bring me to my knees and I would weep. I can’t do that to myself. Because as “strong” as I have to be in all of this, it would make me feel weak and needy. What girl wants a guy like that? It would reassure her she made a good choice in leaving me. I have to show some self respect for myself. I wish I could see her and talk about it, but it won’t be as good as I would think.

Thanks all for the replies.

Andy