Zita,

I love inspirational quotes. Here’s a good one for you:

“People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within.”
-Elisabeth Kubler-Ross.

It seems your inner light has been completely cut off. I agree with Anita in that maybe you just need to do something for YOURSELF. It’s actually OK to be a little selfish sometimes. Take some time to do something that makes you truly happy, a hobby, an activity, something you enjoy. If nothing seems enjoyable, do something that USED to make you happy, and keep doing it, the joy will soon return. Use that to “fan the flames” of your inner light. Over time, you’ll want more of that spark of happiness, and you can use that as motivation to try new things and build the self-confidence you need to conquer your fears.

Good Luck!
Todd Corbett – http://www.the9to5life.com