After 7 years of a relationship, I have to agree that I do not need closure, while we did have our problems, but continued to work on the relationship, he was very deceiving having another part time full relationship with someone else for the last year. I found out by error, of course anger was the first, then hurt, betrayal, I went through it all. It’s been a few weeks now and some days are more difficult to deal with. My head and thoughts were chaotic, going over all the excuses on weekends, the love he showed me even then, the family time we spent together while being played. But what I came to realize is that the cheating, no matter what we were going through was something he chose to do, not because of me, but because of him. \I take responsibility for the fights, the coldness, the resentment that had come about us, but also for the love I showed him but I will not take responsibility for his cheating and his lies. He has apologized via text and no this is not good enough, but what do I want him to say besides he is sorry and he really did love me at one point. The fact is if he showed up, nothing he would say would make me feel better as I know I deserve better in my life and will find that. \I have blocked everything I could to not deal with him as his truths may hurt me more and his time he needed to find himself he is finding with the other woman. So his closure his good bye his im sorry his I miss you will not make me move forward, only I can do this for me by accepting it is over and he doesn’t deserve me. Another good man does.