Wow, it’s amazing how I can finally come across someone with similar experience. It’s been almost 2 years since you started this thread, so I hope you are doing much better now, whether or not you have found your way to get over your ex as you wished.

My breakup happened about a year ago. It was also with the person who I thought was the love of my life. When we started, I immiediately knew what we had was “real”. There was no game. We found peace in each other’s company and loved, respected each other and supported the other’s dreams. Like you said, it felt right for both of us, since that’s what he told me too. The thing is, we were in two different continents and we simple had so much to figure out for our lives. I was devastated when we broke up. It would have been easy if he had cheated on me, or he had been a terrible person, or if we had fought a lot. But we were none of those things. He is a good person, and we loved each other. We were simply not in a good place in our lives to commit to another person.

I am tired of my friends saying I need to forget and move on. I know they mean well, but it doesn’t work that way for me. I don’t want to be cynical and lose faith in love, since it exists and it even happened to me. I don’t believe that I will not find anyone else either. But I am still carrying so much of our history because it’s one of the best things that have happened to me. I know there are good guys out there. It’s just, and I guess you know what I am saying @colourpopz, once you have found something so precious, even though he is not perfect, you just know in your gut this is your person. Not sure if that will change over time.

Anyway, thank you for sharing. Your story made me feel understood and I couldn’t help but shared mine. Take care y’all.