You need to understand it’s not about what you can do, it’s not something you can do, it’s just the way she is, because you said she was like this in the past, so it’s not really about what you can do. All you can do is talk to her kindly and understand her points of view…I think that if you really care about someone you would try to resolve the issues in your relatiomship by talking honestly and saying kindly everything that is on your mind.

I don’t agree that all women want less sex than men in a relationship. It just happens that you two have different needs when it comes to this. The only solution is to talk to her about it… and how it makes you feel and come to a conclusion together and agree on a solution. This is something you should talk to her. It may be that she is not very attracted to you or maybe she has her views on sex or maybe she just doesn’t feel the need to do it as often as you want, you’re just different here. The best way to find a solution about something regarding your relationship is to talk to her about it !

Wow. I totally relate to your story. My ex-bf has had enough after 6 months but somehow he was hoping I will change and we lasted almost 2 years and a half. Yes, he meant everything he said, and everything he said was true in that moment. He didn’t feel like you love him or care about him when you were acting like that. I understand 100% elwhen you talk about the pain you are feeling. In a way, our stories are the same. Me and my ex bf were talking about how we’ll be together forever, how we wish we had been together from childhood, I was the only one for him and he told me so many things. When he broke up with me for good I had a real shock, no joking. The thing is I somehow wanted the breakup too but this is another story. So back to you, I am so sorry for what you are going through, I know it’s extremely hard because you thought it will last. Don’t contact him. You did everything you could: apologizing, talking to him about it..nothing changed. Focus on yourself. I’ll write to you again if you have questions or something. Stay strong. It’s a good step you are aware of what you need to change… Don’t rush into a relationship too soon to fill the void and to “cover” the pain with distractions.

Hello. Maybe he will come back. But would you still want someone who left you? I don’t know what to say, you have to think of what you want too. I mean, don’t just take him back in case he would come back just because you want him back… For me, hoping for a “miracle” only made me relive the breakup everytime I was reminded this is over for good. That’s why I don’t want you to hope, cause you’ll just not get over it like this and you’ll prolong your pain…for what? Ok boy, you decided you don’t want this anymore, bye. I know you care so much and you still love him but all of this is causing you pain. Don’t continue to hurt yourself for someone who decided they want to be single…Nobody deserves this, but that’s life. Think of what you want for yourself and what you want from a boy in the future.

Hello. I am so sorry you have to go through this. You don’t deserve it. I am going through a breakup too. What I realized is that guys are stupid. You give them everything you have and then they decide that they want to be single. The ones that do that are just kids. You say he is mature, but if he was so mature he wouldn’t give up on you and this beautiful relationship just because he wants to be single. Maybe he wants to see what is like to be with someone else, meet other people, just out of curiosity… and immaturity. It feels unfinished because you still have hope and because you remained “friends” kind of, I mean you didn’t hurt each other in the end, which of course gives you some hope. I am hoping that my ex-bf will realize what he has lost and that he will regret it and come to me, but I don’t think he’ll ever do that. We, girls, are so emotional and give everything in a relationship, to a guy, we just give our all, and then if it ends we hope and hope and hope. I think that even if he will realize he will not come back. They are more rational, they stick to what they decide, they are not that emotionally unstable as we are… They are more detached, even though they have feelings for us, they are detached somehow. And even if after some months he will be like … man, that wasn’t worth it or I really lost something beautiful… he will not come back, he will just move on. I don’t want to insult them when I say they are stupid, and I’m not saying it as an insult, but they are stupid… Meaning that they don’t truly realize anything ever, they’re like kids… which is really annoying.

My opinion is that he was still suffering because of his last relationship as he told you and showed you. Maybe he was trying to heal by having a relationship with you. He was still hurt and had this fear of not wanting to lose you but it wasn’t really about you here. It’s about his past. He wanted to heal by trying to be close to you and let you in, because somehow he felt like he could resolve his issue of being hurt with you, but he couldn’t. And because he was in that state of hurt he thought that he could make it go away by being with someone else, ’cause by himself he couldn’t do it, it was too much. The thing is you can’t heal your past hurts by being with someone else… He wasn’t completely there, his heart wasn’t complete, he wasn’t complete, he was broken and he still is. Even though everything was perfect, the truth is he saw in you a chance to heal (which was completely wrong). He didn’t give you his heart, he gave you his fears. Those weren’t feelings from him… just fears. Next time you should be careful, and never hope for a real relationship with someone who is broken and not healed.