Dear girlhenry and Angharad,

I came across this thread while looking for articles to seek solace and to understand why do people just ghosted.

The man whom I thought was the love of my life ghosted me again just recently two days before my birthday. He did it once 2.5 years ago and came back last September. The initial reason I thought was still reasonable but it is still not right to just leave and cut contacts and after apologizing and pursuing me and showing sincerity, we got together again for about ten months until he just ghosted me two weeks back. He never respond to my text and block my number. I was numb and in denial for one week, thinking maybe he is busy and need to have space. The reality sets in now and I am really devastated and heart broken. I felt that there’s no meaning to life, nothing excites me anymore when I wake up every day.

Everyday I question myself, where did it go wrong, did I make any mistake, am I not good enough? I just can’t understand why someone who is so close to me can be so cruel and cold hearted.

Everyday, I’m still battling; emotionally, I really want to tell him how his actions makes me feels. Rationally, I should have let it go to just move on by myself.

Just sharing my own experience here, I hope we can empower and encourage each other to get better everyday. Little steps at a time.