Mu husband has lots of medical issues that I am trying to help him with and get him the care he needs. All I can focus on right is his needs . Everyone is telling me that I must take care of myself. I am finding that difficult to do. It is even more difficult being in this stay at home mode. I am lost . I do not know how to spend my time. I hear of others making productive use of this time. I am not sure what I should be doing .