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    Rose
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    Dear Anita,

    I was never in a relationship before and sometimes I just don’t know how to speak to him due to the lack of experience in that kind of things. 

    Yes, the university he’s going to is far away from where I live so the chances of seeing him again are very low as he doesn’t seem to plan anything out to see me.

    At this moment I’m hoping for something more serious so I’d love for us to be able to try and be together for a longer period of time. For me distance doesn’t matter as long as he stays close to me and doesn’t do anything that would hurt me. I’m just really scared of someone else getting involved, that’s why I started thinking about completely cutting him off…

    Rose
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    I do know what you mean, because to some extent I can relate to that feeling too. Sometimes I just wish I was independent enough to live on my own (Im only 17). I know that it might seem to people that it’s just because Im a teenager but I have always felt this way about my family. I do love them and they mean everything to me and I know that they care for me too but in my opinion having a family is just very tiring. I too have to pretend to be someone else with my family because the moment I just get home I change and I dont know why.

    I guess with me its because I dont like caring for people because that is the only way you can get hurt. When you see someone you love getting hurt you hurt even more and that is what I find very hard to cope with. I want to isolate myself from everyone and have a life where I wouldnt have to care for anyone and just be myself for myself. I want a new life where I’m not tied back to anyone or anything and I can just do what I feel I want to do. Maybe it’s the same with you…

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