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Elizabeth, thanks so much. This was really helpful! It was always me, running around after her, supporting all her projects, putting up with her vanity, her selfishness. In a way, itās a really good thing sheās gone. Iām narcissist free! Thank you again xxx
Well, because she wanted the wedding party to go for an entire week and I told her I couldnāt, i agreed to go as a guest just for the weekend because she went crazy talking about now marriage is a ārite of passageā and I was letting her down. I didnāt end up being her bridesmaid at all (thankfully).
I actually did ask my boss for a week off and she just never replied, that is the truth! We sorta smoothed it out and were just polite to each other after this but our friendship never reignited at all.
She got pretty drunk at her wedding anyways and kept telling me she loved me and then I never heard from her again!
She used to be ok, always about herself but she occasionally was empathetic and easy to talk to, we were close. She just blew up at me all of a sudden and then acted this way, I am to this day still baffled.
That is a good point but Iām not too sure!
It was so strange, she actually didnāt believe me about working clinical hours too until another friend confirmed that it was true several days after. She just hung up on me screaming that my therapist is wrong and that I am delusional. That made me really angry and exasperated, why would I lie about any of this? Why donāt you believe anything Iām saying to you! In many ways it felt like she demanded all of these things from me last minute just to make it impossible for Ā me to go. Thatās what my partner feels anyway!
I dont know really, a bad case of bridezilla?!
How could I spend 20 years of my life with somebody who just behaved this way. I am so confused!
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 