Dear Jaquetta

It is normal to feel overwhelmed by the situation you are going through. It’s not easy to see the light in mist of a storm.

If you take the situation on a different angle, you can see that things are actually better than you are perceiving them at this moment.

Don’t be so hard on you, instead be proud of you and take time to celebrate the micro victories you achieved.

1. You are aware that you have a problem to fix and you are brave enough to seek help. Congraturation.

2. Every challenge is a learning opportunity, you got yourself in this situation because you were trying to find solution. Forgive yourself for not knowing what was the best way of doing it. What did you learn after that?  Forgive yourself for making  mistakes, Forgive yourself for giving away your power.

3. You also have a great support system – your husband, who he is staying positive and strong for both of you. If he believes that you’ll be ok that means, there is a solution to your problem, trust you, your children and your husband……… you are stronger than you think.

4. Self empowerment books and videos are great ressources to learn about getting your inner power back, trust and reselience.

5. You are on the right truck Jaquette, life is about discovering oneself, the journey is going to be long and the key is to find satisfaction in each moment.

I can go on about things that are working just great for you and keep telling you how strong you actually are but it won’t help you as much as you are doing it yourself, maybe you can to it with your family as fun family bonding time.

There is no right or wrong way of parenting, so there is nothing you can do or say that will compromise your children’s well being because they themselves have their inner power guiding them (talking from experience)

Be well my dear Jaquetta,