Firstly I have just been through the exact same thing. I had to take a step back. You need to pr protect yourself and your own well being. I would make a decision to take a step back yourself and not get involved. You may want to protect your friend but at the end of the day she she has her own mind. Divert conversation anand stop making her relationship the focus of attention. I know you care but you need to not be so involved, for your own sanity.
We have agreed to just communicate via email so no texting/calls I was checking my phone constantly!! To the point where I was annoying myself. I can manage 24 hours with no contact and ignore him BUT…. I don’t want to play games. I just want a healthy relationship until the time is right.
I agree. I will keep busy and focused and put her on the backburner. I know however, she will continue to call/text me. That is the difficult bit. I will just have to tell her how busy I am at the minute and hopefully she will get the hint, like you have said.
I really appreciate you taking the time to write back. x
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