Hi Airene.

Us men, take time to really mature and finally know the value of the people we claim we love. Some do it sooner, some later on in life. I can tell you for a fact, nothing wakes a man’s conscience like letting him be, or giving him space to continue being ignorant while you finally choose to be unbothered. The ton of guilt that haunts a man therafter… get it from me. We do a 360 of our lives, start living right and never look back. Maybe he’s at this point, maybe not. Only time will tell.

So be patient with him, but your focus should now be more on your well being, peace of mind, peace of heart & soul. And not his feelings on a revised letter.

About your marriage to him, we’ll i believe marriages are divine unions and are meant to last. But at this point, only his actions going forward should be able to determine your decision to stay or not.