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February 5, 2014 at 12:27 pm #50364CarmenParticipant
@amatt, wow, thanks so much. Hearing this from a man really opened my eyes.
Everything you said was definitely true. And it hurts so much because I do have a
big heart, and I give so much and get little in return. I literally cry when I see happily married
couples, or just people in love, because I want that so much for my relationship. But I feel like
it will never happen. He still forgets to text me back or call me and when I mention it he just says
I apologize and Ill make it up to you, if you wouldve communicated with me, you wouoldnt have to make
up anything…. I just want a man who KNOWS how to love. A man who truly loves me. And I feel like I will
NEVER get that, it hurts so bad.- This reply was modified 10 years, 9 months ago by Carmen.
February 1, 2014 at 2:00 pm #50130CarmenParticipantHi Charlotte, thanks so much for the support, and I’m sorry I’m replying late to the post. About 3 days ago, he texted me and stated that he wanted to be in a relationship again, of course I was happy, but at the same time, I was kind of like “hmmm, I want to be with him, BUT what’s going to e different this time?” As the day went on I think my texts were coming off as a little cold, and he caught on quick and asked if I really wanted to be with him, I then said you broke up with me, and we haven’t had the chance to really TALK about it. But yes. I basically told him he hurt me reallllyyyyy bad, and that he needs to prove himself, saying “I love you” sometimes just isn’t enough, it takes more than that. So instead of us talking… He decides to hang out with friends, when I specifically told him MAKE SURE YOU MAKE TIME FOR US. Which he didn’t I was furious and cried myself to sleep. After all this I would think that he would be eager to show me how much he doesn’t want to lose me but he didn’t. It’s like I’m begging him to talk and at this point I feel like I should’ve kept the break up. The day is almost over and he hadn’t contacted me yet. Last night I did hang up on him after he told me he was “chilling” when he was supposed to be “working on a car” so I felt played with and lied to. And like I said, he still hasn’t contacted me to apologize, I usually would just give in and apologize even if I’m not wrong just to make peace. But I can’t be at his every beck and call.
January 26, 2014 at 5:29 pm #49775CarmenParticipantIt sure does, thanks!
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