Hi Dear,
I’m sorry for your pain–continue on for yourself! YOU are a great reason to continue on this journey, be kind to yourself.
Can I share something that helped with some of my previous struggles?
The book Things Are Going Great In My Absence by Lola Jones helped me to leave my struggling and suffering behind and get relief. It wasn’t hard, it was easy…I can now make better and more deliberate choices and create more effectively for my life, I’m happy and free now.
I see that you have been searching and seeking help for sometime and I urge you to try Lola’s book. Lola taught me that there’s no need to constantly seek and “work on myself”. I really just wanted to share because this book has helped me so much. I’m a new person now with a whole new life and I owe it all to this book. Please check it out, and I hope it helps you like it helped me!

Sending so much love and ease, Cara

Hey Scott,

I saw your post here and really wanted to share this book that helped me to change my life with you. I have found peace and a deeper knowing and have learned to let go of so much–all of which has really improved my life experiences. I was seeking for so long before I found this book, and since then, the seeking and wanting for something has stopped.

The book is called Things Are Going Great In My Absence and its by Lola Jones.
I started with the book and then went onto all the other amazing resources in Lola’s program, Divine Openings. Lola guided me in changing the way I see things and approach situations in life…she helped me to transform my life while feeling guided and supported. I urge you to check it out!

I’m telling anyone I can about this book since it has helped me so much. I’ve been sharing it with all my friends and family and getting them all involved with Divine Openings too! They are loving it and I hope that you will love it to. Get the book! It changed my life!

Sending ease and love

• This reply was modified 6 years, 10 months ago by Cara.

Hi Cee,

I definitely think you are doing the right thing here.
If he is not ready to give you his time and energy right now, what’s best for YOU is to give him space. I know it’s hard since it sounds like you really like this guy and he likes you too–he’s just not ready yet and it’s not fair for you to wait around for him.
Give him space, but don’t just wait for him. Get out there and date as well!
I’m not sure if you’ve ever heard of Lola Jones, but her dating book helped me so much in realizing what is it that I really wanted, what I really NEEDED in a relationship, and how to attract the right person for me. It really put me on the right path. It’s called “Dating To Change Your Life” and I highly recommend it. Lots of love!