I have been married with my husband now for 1 year 6 months. In the begging everything was great and fine but in reality I am the type od person who does not pick and chose or allow even attempt to allow the other half to pick and chose sides. I have bitten my tounge and held in a lot I raerely speak to my husband or say anything about how things make me feel anymore do to his family. They have went and had the nerve to go on my Facebook and to start sensing everyone one of my closetea friends and Family a message saying this ” We have not heard from J he married M sometime and we dont know if he is ok or alive I Am very concerned about him well being if anyone’s hears from M or J can you have J contact me or I will file a police report within 24 hours against M.” My other all time Favorite is this women dont all you to calm or talk to anyone I am your mother I dont know who she thinks she is but sje has another thing coming. Now granted this women is not even my husband real mom at all his family dont even know nor have they ever talked to me to judge me. So in all in all I get the blame for everything in every which way. I have goften to the point that I shut down so much I dont speak or say a word to mt husband anymore. He never backed me or had my back against his rude family. I have always had his back no matter what and I have told family off when they was in the wrong as well told thwm he is my husband if you can’t respect my husband then you dont need to be a part of my family circle which is my life with my husband. I hace always been brougbt up that once you are married or have kids that home becomes your family your new whole and others need to respect it or leave you alone and iys 50/50 not 75/25. I told my husband I dont carw if he talk to his family but they will respect me as well there will be no sneaking or hiding behind my back. This contniues to go on and has not stopped he has not seen how much his family has made me want to walk away from him and leave him I have gotten to the point that I have told him go be with those who won and you can ket them know I am divorcing you because of them. The words and accuai g has hurt so much that I don’t even want to take my husband with me on vications or anything because all I need is to have the cops arrest me for something I have not done I love my husband very much but I am to the end point that I am walking on eggs shells and I feel beyrayed by him and his family as well to the point I don’t believe him because he hide when talking to them and tells them not to talk when he is here at home. He is a grown man who does not need to check in with mom or family I dont know anymore what to think or say because I honestly feel if I take my husband with me anywhere I am to blame when he is the one who has told me he don’t want any ties with them because of all the bad things they have done. How do I get him to see and understand what they said has made a major impact on our marriage I am just glad there is no kids involved between us to that would be more he’ll but his family uses his nieces and nephews against him and blame me and he allows it still he has not seen hiw much hurt and pain this caused when I cant enjoy my life with my husband as us as one