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  • in reply to: Feeling guilty about loving someone new #103561
    sandstorm
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    reality check its over with ur ex . don’t confuse yourself as well confuse him . I know its hard since you were really long together .
    but now its an new beginning ,help to build that into strong one . every time the relationship will be tested .nothing is permanent in this world not success nor failure .u have to convince yourself with one decision and no matter what stick with that . it will be hard . but now thats how it is .

    in reply to: Broke up with my boyfriend but I still love him.. #103459
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    i completely agree with amarettoreveries one billion percent right . think about it

    in reply to: About friendship and forgetfulness #103435
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    hmmn you are boring for them thats why they might ignore you sometime

    in reply to: Broke up with my boyfriend but I still love him.. #103416
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    yup i don’t see any strong reason for breakup

    in reply to: When Does Fear Serve Us? #103392
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    i never read something so deep about fear thank you

    in reply to: How much say should the brain be given? #102692
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    yup i have been to similar position . over the time i understood that its better to keep myself less attached to someone . because this shit hurt AF . I was honest and did whatever i can to make it right . still people deceived me. badluck for me but personally it made so strong emotionally . now i can acknowledge my feeling so deep that i understand why i am feeling happy . why i am sad . i can easily see horse shit . over all it made me wiser . i am 100 % sure if i find someone who is putting herself out for me i will totally respect it and i will stand right to her no matter what . because she would so much precious to me .it took whole lot of shit experience to get to her .

    in reply to: 24 and never dated #102575
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    claudia,
    its not a big deal to loose virginity . its natural . i don’t understand why people think its big deal u cannot stop such thing . but let me tell you sex is over rated else well. make sure that you shouldn’t end up in bad consequences like this old man get attached with you . or you get emotional attached with him . and yes protection is must it goes without saying . u have no idea how many people hide so many things and just pretend to act as super good person . frankly speaking its your life u make ur choice . honestly speaking sex has nothing to do with relationship . u should decide what you u want first ? casual sex or relationship .

    in reply to: Please help me break this pattern once and for all… #100971
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    hey dreaming since you are using dating app you should make your point very clear that i am looking for long term relationship if you are not up for that please don’t waste my time and yours . I also used dating app many girls deceived me too .but i never blamed all the women on the earth . yes toll of dating app is heavy the moment people find better they just go for new one . since people don’t know each other and they less care about time and emotion invested . so in dating apps are fast food of relationship .but they don’t understand the fact that its relationship it require whole lot of efforts its not an job application where you get more salary you just hop on . it depends on what actually you want out of it . keep patience keep looking if tired give it break than try again . try change if u did some mistake from previous one . and hope for best.

    in reply to: I just need to be honest #100457
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    myotherme
    i truly understand what you are going through and because i have also been to situation where only option u see is to end everything .
    i feel every single emotion of what you are going through.
    always remember that u are brave and thinking of solution in bad time thats what we are suppose to do . m glad that u put post here.
    good stand strong fight with whatever you have and whatever you can .and use this point of life that you were standing strong and in future you will tell yourself yes it was difficult i made it through .
    myotherme be brave give it time stand strong fight hard .

    my love and best wishes to you ,myotherme

    in reply to: Unsure If I Should Let Go? Or How I Even Would? #100456
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    hey sensitiveandtrying:
    i think u should slow down a bit and allow time to solve your problem .
    you should savor what you have ,some people might not even have what connection u have found .
    relationship is hard work . it requires lot of patience to build . if you are not up for that and think you can get better (deserve better)
    with someone else than u should let go (it comes with risk and burning bridges). but you never know you might face same problem with new one .
    the ways guys think and girls think it completely different .because biologically we are different .
    i strongly believe in relationship we should always consider relationship is to give whatever we get out of it is bonus(that should be mindset).
    i do understand your point to solve issue permanently once for all by talking it out . but he doesn’t feel the same way he doesn’t think its as important at all. so you will not meet at same point because both of you are running parallel.
    hope third person perspective helps
    sensitiveeeeee and tryiiiiiingg

    life is an adventure ,better know how to roll

    in reply to: Help me change my perspective on going out/dating #98887
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    Hey dreaming,
    something in life you don’t have control i believe dating is one of them .
    you shouldn’t put your self down . may be looking for someone in bar is not right place for you to find special one in your life.
    may be something else is written in your destiny . some place else . u should keep patience . stand strong and wait for right person to hit on . spending quality time with right one is way more better than spending tones of time with someone who isn’t good fit for you .
    just be natural be yourself talk to people as much you can . you never know when everything will change just in heartbeat.
    don’t overthink its just kills happiness. don’t take dating too seriously it just part of life not life

    and guess what u look gorgeous i can feel it

    in reply to: Panic Disorder HELP #96731
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    you won’t be crazy cat lady for sure . do ur medicine ,eat right food ,sleep ,work,laugh when u can and chill . don’t over think which u r doing right now.

    • This reply was modified 8 years, 10 months ago by sandstorm.
    in reply to: Where to find positive friendships? #96315
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    i am same place . i came down to conclusion that i don’t need one if i am strong

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