Dear Anita:
From your replies on this situation, one can assume that you are the type of girl that think that it is okey to play with a guys feelings?
She was dragging him and playing along with him because she liked the attention he was giving her. If you truely think that she was “busy, distracted, inattentive” and does not know what she is doing to him. Then either you or her are dumb. The first option appeals to me more considering your arguments.
Bob