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  • March 12, 2024 at 10:48 am #428612
    Aryan
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    Yes, I moved a lot during my childhood, not living in the same place for more than a few years and of course never having stable friendships up until my senior highschool

    I am looking for new people who can give me new perspectives to live and honestly a freshness of connection beyond my existing friend circle

    March 12, 2024 at 9:26 am #428608
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    “the way I understand it, is that you got used to being a big time loner. It became an emotional habit. College made a temporary difference, and now, you are back to your emotional habit of feeling lonely, sad and scared.”

    I do not feel the same, in fact the opposite, I feel scared to be alone now. However, since the breakup everything seems extra lonely and I do not wish to meet any of my old friends except my bestfriends.

    ” limiting in what way?”

    Limiting as in they are I realize very limited in their thinking and unambitious. I realized they affected me so much that after coming to college the momentum I had built went stagnant. Conversely, the thing is I never have had stability in life. Maybe the stability of these friends also turned me stagnant. however, I realize that I wish to find new people and grow

     

    “what are you looking for in new (unlimiting) friends?”

    People who are ambitious and goal oriented or at least in places that will be beneficial and social for me. in fact I want any new friend so I can get into a new social circle.

    March 12, 2024 at 8:10 am #428606
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    No, I don’t usually feel like I ruin everything in my life. I feel I make things harder for myself however usually I can handle situations sufficiently even with my anxiety. However this time in terms of relationship I utterly failed. Even after sharing a friendship and emotional connection I failed to get free and comfortable around her and ended up being immature and unauthentic and boring.

    “What do you think of, or feel about the above quotes?”

    I agree with the quotes. Being a big time loner all my life finding so many friends coming to college was a great experience. However, now I find those same friends limiting. Even after having so many friends, I feel unsatisfied and lonely. In fact I am trying to find new friends but haven’t been successful yet. Nowadays going from being outside with friends all the time and a month of having a date, suddenly I have no one except me. It saddening and makes me scared.

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