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  • February 10, 2017 at 11:06 pm in reply to: Late twenties life crisis or something like that… #127226
    Amy
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    I have to respectfully point out that on this occasion you are incorrect; my parents have never been critical of me and have only ever supported me, so the theory on the Inner Critic doesn’t apply to everyone.

    You are right in saying he is kinder to himself, but he did have years when this wasn’t so and has undergone huge changes.

    February 10, 2017 at 12:35 pm in reply to: Late twenties life crisis or something like that… #127207
    Amy
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    Ramone, thank you. I really enjoyed reading your post and I feel a little less heavy inside because of it.
    I am a very restless person by nature but am also lazy – fear also plays a big part in me not writing and creating. My partner, on the other hand, is an artist and just rolls with it; I admire his ability to just be like ‘hey, I tried this but it’s not working, I’m going to try something else.’ He is 3 years older though so maybe that has something to do with it?
    I would love to have a massive purge of stuff – but I do worry and get quite anxious about getting rid of too much and feeling ‘poor’ or like I’m denying myself things.

    Wishing you peace and happiness too!

    February 10, 2017 at 12:30 pm in reply to: Late twenties life crisis or something like that… #127205
    Amy
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    I guess I just miss the freedom of disposable income and not having to worry about whether or not I could afford to go for that pint with a friend or that lunch with my mum.

    I just feel like a bit of a failure: I got really quite unwell while teaching through stress and anxiety but I still feel like I should have been able to manage it. If I had, I would be on much better money by now. My partner doesn’t get it: he’s quite minimalist and sees work as a means to an end. He can cover his expenses and has about £30 left over per month for himself and he gets by just fine. I have about £100 left over and it doesn’t feel like enough.

    The children thing isn’t as much of an issue but I sometimes feel suffocated when everyone around me seems to be having kids. I work in a female-heavy environment and most talk is about kids or grandkids.

    Is it so wrong to not be that bothered?

    I always feel like I’m on the cusp of some big realisation but it never ever happens.

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