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  • in reply to: I lost the guy I thought he's the one #131977
    Becky
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    Hi! Sorry about your situation. I was in a similar relationship, love but lots of arguing and not very compatable. I think honestly it’s easier to fall in love than it is to find someone who shares the thoughts and beliefs and dreams that you have and who you can communicate easily with. But I’m here on the other side and I’ve been happily married for 13 years now and we agree on most things and don’t argue much. I didn’t know relationships could be easy and smooth. But they can be!!! Breaking up is hard but don’t loose hope. Be on the look out for someone who shares your beliefs and who really understands you and take it from there.
    Blessings!

    Becky
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    I agree with Anita. If you feel physically ill, listen to that.

    I’ll pass along good advice that I got from my mom ages ago. She was a single parent and always told me to only date men that would make good parents. Because you never know, they could end up as the father of your child. I always kept that in the back of my mind and it was a good way to judge if someone was worth being in a real relationship with. Now I have a good husband who is also a good dad.

    Also, I’m sure this guy has positive attributes and a lot of potential, but look at the decisions he has made and the direction he is taking his life in, not just what he is saying or could be doing. Actions speak louder than words.

    in reply to: In relationship with a wonderful person but still incomplete #70999
    Becky
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    I’ve been married for ten years. I think it’s important to be completely confident in your decision to marry someone. It’s one of the biggest decisions of your life and you need to be able to walk down that aisle knowing one hundred percent that you are making a commitment that you are sure of. its certainly a difficult decision to make, but you can do it!

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