my answer was for weeping dragon

Being single is not a death sentence. Ask yourself: Am I whole? Am I ready to love another human being? Do I have a lot of unresolved issues within myself that I need to fix, before I can enjoy another person’s company?

A lot of women go into relationships assuming that having a man will fix all their problems internally. Couldn’t be the farthest thing from the truth. If anything, having a man will amplify those problems, if you haven’t fixed them first. If you aren’t whole, you will have a hard time maintaining healthy relationships with anybody in your life.

Remember, to find your other whole- not half. If you need another half, that’s where the problem lies. Then you need to self evaluate yourself. That you only feel successful in life- if you have romance/ sex. etc that’s a wrong way to think or approach love. You will always fail that way. Don’t get me wrong, everyone gets lonely, I get it….. But, take care of you, before you attempt to take care of someone else. Hope this helps.

Stay blessed!! : )

Think Positive. You’re a great person- tell yourself that. Remember you must win the battle in your mind. Stand strong. When negative thoughts come to play, reject and replace them with positive affirmations. What you say in the midst of your difficulties, will have a greater impact on how you handle those situations.

Have a victor’s mentality. Stay in the attitude of faith. Don’t allow yourself to lapse into negative thinking or negative patterns of self-destruction. Love and nurture yourself. Take care of your well being. You seem like an awesome person, I’m sure there are many wonderful things about you, from reading the post, you seem intelligent and engaging. You have wonderful attributes, remind yourself of them. Do anything- but this. This is not a good solution to any problem, if anything it amplifies them and creates new problems. You have way too much to offer the world : ) Take care of yourself.