Hi Spidey!

I felt like I needed to say this even though it seems you have resolved the issue in your mind. I think I mainly want to write you for others like you in the same situation.

As a female that has been in a similar situation but in her position, it sounds like she just isn’t that into you relationship-wise. She’s just trying to be nice ( in her mind) by not telling you that you are in the friend zone. She may or may not realize that she is doing this though. However, I need to tell you, move on. If she wanted you in that way she would move mountains to just be with you for a little while. I am not trying to be mean or offensive but I don’t like to see people hurt and dragged along in relationshits wasting their time longing for someone who won’t give them the time of day. If you want to stay friends that’s great but don’t expect it to go further than that, it just seems to me she is using you for attention.

If you approached her and opened up to her about your feelings and she wanted you she’d try to be with you every waking minute. Find someone like that. Hope that helps and sorry about the run ons. Best wishes.