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  • December 15, 2017 at 3:56 am #182303
    Astrid
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    Hi Poppyxo

    I would tell her at the time to leave him. But more than a year has gone by now and I have seen him changed. I just canā€™t get over the hurt.

    Astrid

    December 15, 2017 at 3:53 am #182297
    Astrid
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    Hi Inky

    I never took a break after he said those things to me. He is really trying to make things up to me. I understand that everyone makes mistakes and I donā€™t think I want to play games like that.

    Astrid

    December 12, 2017 at 12:32 pm #181809
    Astrid
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    Hi Anita

    I think forgiving him has been a stumbling block and although I said I forgave him I never truly did. Somehow I always held onto the pain and everytime I see this girl it brings up old emotions I thought Iā€™d forgot about.

     

    You are right though and I do think that he has shown that he is worthy of my trust now.

    Thank you for your response.

     

    Astrid

    December 12, 2017 at 11:23 am #181783
    Astrid
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    Hi Anita

    I think I find it hard to trust him because he betrayed my trust a lot. First with the cheating at the beginning of our relationship and then when he promised me that heā€™s done he still continued to chat with her for ā€œjust in case we break upā€.

     

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    December 12, 2017 at 9:18 am #181763
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    Hi Anita

    He owned up to what he said. Since then he has been working on communicating his feelings with me better. He only has positive things to say to me now. He even made plans for our future.

    Astrid

    December 12, 2017 at 7:31 am #181743
    Astrid
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    Hi Anita

    Well, to begin we differ in the way we dress. I dress more modestly, yet fashionably, while she is someone that will expose more of herself. She is also someone that has very racy pictures online (the type of woman that lives for likes from guys). I donā€™t know her personally and I havenā€™t ever spoken to her so Iā€™ve sort of made my judgements of what Iā€™ve seen from her on social media. Iā€™ve just been questioning what my boyfriend sees in me if that was the type of girls he use to get involved with. He also said to me that he use to think she is hotter than me and that he thought I was boring and clingy and that was the reason he cheated on me.

    He changed a lot this year and he has tried to show me that he has been faithful but I am still struggling to trust him.

    Iā€™m still feeling conflicted.

     

    Astrid

    December 12, 2017 at 6:50 am #181731
    Astrid
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    Hi Anita

    I have been experiencing problems with trusting him again. I checked on his phone but I didnā€™t see any conversations between him or any other girls other than his friends.

    I think it intensified once I knew who she was. I searched her on social media and I saw her a few times because I shop at the mall where she works at. I think a lot of comparison and insecurities also came into place because she is the complete opposite from what I am. It made me question the relationship a lot. As you can see I am still questioning it.

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