I have many times tried to forgive and let go. Cant do it. Prash wrote “and maybe the other person is also miserable because of his/her guilt” .I cant deal with that thought on my mind. Dont want to be the reason of the other persons miserability even if at the time, that what happened to me i was only 8years old and for sure not responsible for his “action” .I am sorry for my english its not my mother language and never had english lessons .I am from Greece and German is m second language. I hope you understand what i want to say . Thank you