Hang in there first, know that there are many other people out there that feel lonely. Second, pat yourself on the back, it takes strength first to realize, that you were not happy in the first marriage and second for speaking your mind about the relationship after. Often we are hard on ourselves when really we are growing, etc. Now, I get the whole I do for others and I don’t get that back in return. Reward yourself first. Love self first. This is hard, cause it may come off as selfish, but remember, you were married for quite some time, its now your time.

Learn to mediate, some part of the day, take care of self first and the rest will follow, I promise. Growth is essential part of this all, being aware so you don’t make the same mistakes, but being better to yourself is what is really important.

I wish you only love and happiness.

FWIW, I’m single, almost 40 and have loved to really enjoy my life, my friends, family and this wonderful weird whacky world we live in!