Hey girl, don’t fall for the illusion that these types of men put out. They choose younger girls like yourself for a reason and someone that needs “saving” because they know a woman in her 20’s or even early 30’s has time to waste and have fun. He doesn’t choose women his age, because they have experience and wisdom, ( his shit stink!) They use your weakness to manipulate and control you. They are actually very bad with a mask showing that they care and that you need them. Actually, if you read about a pimps tactics…it is very similar psychology. You need to practice some self love and have self reliance. He is not in control of your happiness and healing. It is actually quite the opposite, because he keeps feeding off your energy because you are a sensitive and loving person. He is also just another addiction, which is why you are digging yourself a bigger hole. You will feel more empty and depressed than before you started with him, making you believe that he is the cause to happiness. No! He is robbing you of your happiness. True love should make you feel safe and warm. He didn’t choose you because he is a coward and because you are young, he is most likely worried that you will find someone better and ditch him eventually. He doesn’t deserve his wife either. She is also low self esteem and he feeds of this. Even if he leaves, do you really want to be in that poor woman’s shoes? He will get bored and find a new one after. Just telling how it is from some experience and learning from other friends as well.  The Friendship is broken because you had sex, so there is no friendship. He is just trying to keep you emotionally attached and stringing you along so you can have him on your mind.  Even some communication is enough for him, but for you it brings a flutter of hope to your heart. He is screwing with your mind and it is poisoning your heart. Don’t be afraid of the unknown. You deserve love and will love again having the person all to yourself. Please heal yourself and be strong! Be patient. Forgive yourself and learn…

Advice? BREAK-FREE.