Thank you so much Banu, the codepency article is life changing. I loved your blog.
Thank you for your help.

I’ve been feeling so much better since I posted this, reading all your good words.
3 days after I posted this, I was working like in a normal day, I checked my phone to see the clock and there it was, 3 messages from this person…
I was shocked, I couldn’t believe it, like I said I didn’t know anything about him since that last horrible fight and I didnt expect to, never again and there it was… I was so nervous and scared, my first thought was that the messages were complains or angry words again, but for my surprise, he sent me a photo of a meaning letter he wrote to me in the days of our relationship and he apologize for everything, I was so relieved, that was the opportunity I needed, we talked and everything end great.
Yes, we do say awful things when we are angry, but yes there is more to us and to others than weapons when we love.