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  • February 15, 2014 at 5:08 am in reply to: am i paranoid or not seeing whats under my nose #51051
    amy
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    Thanks for your replys i guess i need to learn to beleive in myself and that its ok for me to have boundaries within a relationship i am having to take a good look at myself and in some ways feel quite empowered by saying i dont want that in my life instead of what your doing is wrong i have been so tangled up in a confusing mixture of feelings for him and blaming myself for all our problems that i lost any sense of who i am its good to share i feel much better and stronger

    February 14, 2014 at 10:32 am in reply to: am i paranoid or not seeing whats under my nose #51004
    amy
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    Hi mark, yes i do want to trust him and at first i really thought i would my insecurities only seem to come out in a relationship although this paticular issue has only been with him and one other who are both very into the phone/internet and in the times when his phone is unlocked he seems more available and i dont worry and i dont think omg whats he doing, if he gets worried about what im doing he can have access to my phone and has password to laptop . i cant seem to get the balance with taking charge of my life in a relationship as i have now said if he choses to behave in this way i dont want to be with him and that seems to make me controlling but isnt honesty and openness the way to gain trust even if we make mistakes and i think what evers happened we could sort and change it if we both wanted that
    Amy

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