Dear Anita, yes you’re right. Part of what I’m today with anxiety is because of this drama started by my father. In fact, I have just observed this for a long time and remained silent nor spoke about this to anyone. I don’t want to frame my father as the worst guy because he made sure that I completed my education. My mother has taken good care of me and protected me everytime.

I Just don’t wish to lose sanity and do something I might regret. I want to leave with my  mother and let my father stay alone and make sure he understands what he has done his whole life.

Is this acceptable? I see that there’s no other solution. We may have to embrace life for what it is but sometimes avoiding things is better than embracing them.